How do you sleep better if stress is the leading cause of this severe deprivation? Well, first we must flesh through & get to the bottom of what’s ailing YOU specifically. Stress is nearly inevitable for most everyone…but you’re not “everyone,” so bear with me, and together we’ll get this figured out.
Stress takes an intense toll on your overall well-being affecting not only your physical, but mental health and is one of the leading causes of sleep deprivation. The less sleep you get the more stressed you feel. It’s a vicious cycle.
This cycle is referred to as the “sleep-stress cycle.”. And research indicates there is a link between sleep and stress leading to the potential for a vicious cycle of exhaustion and then more stress.
The American Psychological Association survey states: “stress is the cause for adults getting only 6.7 hours of sleep,” and many report the stress increases for them as the length and quality of their sleep decreases.
The survey continued, saying thirty-seven percent of adults feel tired because of stress. Not only that, adults not getting enough sleep, roughly 53 percent, report feeling lazy or sluggish, 38 percent felt irritable, 29 percent had trouble concentrating and 25 percent had no motivation at all.
Sleep is our natural state of rest for both the body and the mind. A third of our lives are spent sleeping, yet we often take it for granted. Difficulty sleeping has become the norm for millions of people. Are there ways you can combat this to get better sleep? And why is a good night’s sleep necessary?
Those are really good questions! And I just so happen to have the answers to them for you!
Following are the reasons you need a good night’s sleep and how stress impacts it.
As a teenager, you probably thought you could stay up all night and still go to school. How’d that work out? Probably better than now…but still, probably not as good as you’d like to admit. A good night’s sleep is essential no matter what your age. To be focused mentally, calm emotionally and physically healthy; your body needs to recharge every night. Yet most of us don’t get the recommended seven to eight hours needed.
Your body shifts its energy focus during sleep. When we’re awake, our body focuses on processing information, digestion and moving. As we sleep, our body focuses on the internal needs such a rejuvenation, repair and self-healing.
Benefits of a good night’s sleep include:
A good night’s sleep is necessary for a healthy lifestyle. It affects how you feel, how you interact in your relationships and your productivity. While you sleep your brain begins working to reenergize the body.
If you’ve ever tossed and turned after a rough day at work, you know that stress can make it hard to turn off the mind and get a good night's sleep. As we’ve already seen, the connection between sleep and stress is a two-way street. Lack of sleep can be a big source of stress the same as stress can lead to lack of sleep.
No matter what your age is or your occupation, a lack of sleep can throw your system off balance. Stress impacts your sleep in many ways.
Not enough sleep creates a vicious sleep-stress cycle. When you are stressed, your mind is racing with worry. It’s hard to turn it off. Your body is tired but your mind isn’t, so you lie there staring at the ceiling or tossing and turning, you’re lucky to get 4 or 5 hours of sleep.
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As you can see, stress has a major effect on the quality and amount of sleep you get. But don’t fret…There are things you can do to keep stress from wrecking your sleep.
Everyone has some kind of stress. The trick is in learning just how to de-stress, even if that means right before seeking your bed to get better sleep. If taking stress out of your entire day or life…is out of the question.
Here are ten ways to de-stress:
Determine what is stressful. To get a handle on stress you have to figure out what is causing it. Take a look at your daily activities to determine what is causing you stress. Then take steps to reduce those stressors.
Get social support. Make it a point to spend time with family and friends as often as you can [just not the ones who are causing you stress.] It can be helpful to share your problems with these people who care about you.
Practice thought management. Learn to change the thought patterns that produce stress. What you think, what you expect, how you think, and what you tell yourself can help you manage stress. Use commercial audiotapes or books to help you learn to control your thoughts. EFT/Tapping is phenomenal!
Exercise. Without a doubt, exercise is a great stress reliever. It can help you blow off steam. Flexible, loose muscles are less likely to become tight in response to stress. Make sure you exercise at least three hours before [not for 3 hours!] you plan to go to bed. The type of exercise you do doesn’t really matter as long as it gets you moving and focusing on something other than your worries.
Eat a healthy diet. Filling your body with comforting junk food and refined sugars in response to stress can leave you feeling sluggish and with low energy. A healthy diet, one that is low in sugar, caffeine and alcohol can reduce your stress.
A healthy diet includes:
Relax with essential oils and aromatherapy. Aromatherapy is effective for people having trouble sleeping. Use a diffuser with natural oils such as lavender, chamomile, sandalwood or rose. There are several studies that show inhaling the scents of plants or essential oils helps reduce anxiety. Drinking tea made from lavender, vanilla chamomile or lemon balm produces similar results.
Use relaxation techniques. There are different types of relaxation techniques you can use to calm your mind before you drift off to sleep. They include:
Yoga poses lower stress levels, calms your mind and relieves tension in your body, making it a natural sleep remedy. There are certain poses that can be particularly beneficial to fighting restlessness, including the easy forward bend or the child’s pose.
Meditation or Mindfulness allows you to clear your mind and relax your body by listening to your breathing.
Tap into a higher power. Spiritual or religious individuals can try prayer, spiritual reflection or meditation to help rest their mind and body.
Muscle relaxation is the act of tensing and relaxing every muscle in your body by focusing on each one.
Breathing techniques. If you aren’t into prayer or formal meditation, do some deep breathing instead. Sit still and breathe for 10 minutes. Notice your breath and when your mind begins to wander bring it back to your breath.
Get Intimate. If you’re in a committed relationship, engage in intimate conversation or sexual activity. This can lead to stress relief..
See a Sleep Specialist if nothing else seems to be working. A professional therapist can help you sort through what is causing your stress and lack of sleep and give you techniques to address the insomnia.
There you have it. Ten ways to destress so you can get to sleep. Try just one of these for an improvement on your sleep.
If you are having trouble sleeping, don’t give up trying. There are many things you can do to make getting that shut eye you need easier. Sometimes it’s a process of elimination, which can be frustrating. But better frustrated than the alternatives listed above.
Check out these healthy sleep tips:
Some ways to wind down include:
Planning your bedtime routine and making your bedroom a place that encourages sleep are just the beginning to getting quality sleep. Avoid heavy exercise, snacking and anything that stimulates your body or mind within an hour of bedtime.
It’s normal to have brief periods when you wake up at night. Most people won’t even remember doing it. But what happens when you’re waking up during the night and having difficulty going back to sleep? Stress, worries from the day and a many other things can keep you awake. The following tips may help you get back to sleep.
First and foremost stay out of your mind. The key is to continue to cue your body for sleep. That means staying in bed in a relaxed position. Try to keep your mind off your worries. A good way to do this is to focus on your feelings in your body or practice breathing exercises. Take a breath in through your nose. Then breathe slowly out through your mouth saying or thinking the word “AHHH”. Repeat as long as needed.
Relaxation is your goal, not sleep. Another relaxation technique you can try is visualization. Visualize a blank piece of paper or a relaxing spot such as a beach. Try progressive muscle relaxation or meditation.
If you’re awake for more than 15 minutes, get out of bed and do something quiet and non-stimulating like reading an actual paper book under dim lights. Avoid computers, cell phones, or tablets as this blue screen light stimulates the brain. You can also try a cup of herbal tea to help you relax.
Don’t stare at the clock. If you have a habit of glancing at your alarm clock often when you awaken, stop it. It will only make your mind race with thoughts of what the day will bring. If you have to, put your alarm clock in a drawer or turn it around from view.
Put off worrying or brainstorming if you wake up during the night. Instead, make a brief note on paper of your worry or thoughts and put it aside until morning.
Getting back to sleep during the night can often be as difficult as falling asleep to begin with. If you tend to wake up for more than 15 minutes during the night, try doing relaxation techniques, as well any of the other tips found in this guide. If all else fails, consider talking to your doctor. There may be an underlying health problem keeping you from sleep or they can suggest changes you might need to make.
Now that we’ve covered the reasons you need good quality sleep, it’s time to take the steps needed to improve your sleep. Stress is a major contributor to lack of sleep or poor quality sleep.
One of the first things I’d recommend is getting your stress under control, if possible. Finding ways to deal with stress while you’re awake lessens its impact on your sleep. If you can’t get rid of the stress, use ways to blow off steam, such as vigorous exercise or talking it out with someone.
Next, create a bedroom that encourages you to sleep. Is the room dark enough? When the lights are on, are they dim? Keep the hue of your walls in calming shades. Find a mattress and pillow that are comfortable, yet supportive. Declutter your room and make it a relaxing retreat. Is your bedroom cool and quiet?
Your bedroom should be for sleeping, relaxing and intimacy alone. Never take work to bed or share it with your furry friends.
Establish a regular relaxing routine at bedtime. Try to go to bed and wake up at the same time every day. Meditate, do calming yoga stretches or take a warm bath.
Don’t watch TV, use your computer or smartphone or even pay bills just before going to bed. Avoid caffeine, chocolate, sugar and nicotine in the evening.
As you can see, getting better sleep is an ongoing process. It means reducing or controlling your stress during the day and finding ways to live better so you can sleep better at night.